Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Questions about Familial Spiritual Practices

I'm curious about experiences you had of spiritual disciplines and devotional practices in their families while growing up. I'm also curious about what spiritual disciplines and devotional practices you practice with your family now, if you have children.

My reasons are primarily personal (though I don't want to discount the possibility of writing about this in the future). I did not grow up Roman Catholic, as regular readers of this blog know. I did not, therefore, experience 'traditional' Roman Catholic devotional practices until well into my twenties. Both Kim and I are interested in being more intentional about familial spiritual practices, but both of us are unsure about what this might look like. While we're an interchurch family, both of us sense that the Roman Catholic tradition perhaps offers a richer source for familial spiritual practices than the Anglican tradition, though the two have many similarities. So I want to know what kind of spiritual disciplines and devotional practices you experienced in your family, what this looked like, whether you found these experiences beneficial to you in your journey of faith, as well as whether you continue to inculcate this spirituality in your family today.

You can help me by commenting below, sending me a tweet, or sending me an email.

Friday, June 26, 2015

Interchurch Families and the Upcoming Synod on the Family - *Updated*

*Update* The Instrumentum Laboris has now been published in English

The Instrumentum Laboris was published last week by the Vatican, albeit only in Italian. This is the working document for part II of the Synod on the Family this October. There are, of course, many issues to be discussed at the Synod, and most people are focused on what the Synod will have to say about divorce and remarriage, as well as about same-sex relationships. Less attention is paid to an issue that is important to me as someone married to an Episcopalian: interchurch families.

The report issued at the conclusion of the Synod last October was disappointing on this issue. Only after warning people in 'mixed marriages' that they are in danger of 'relativism and indifference' did the document suggest that people in interchurch marriages may have something worthwhile to contribute ecumenically. Nothing was said about the possibility of intercommunion for those in interchurch families.

In April, the Interchurch Families International Network (IFIN) released an open letter to the Synod delegates, which you can read here. One of the issues to which IFIN draws attention is the possibility of greater Eucharistic sharing for those in interchurch families. The 1993 Ecumenical Directory, published by the Pontifical Council for Promoting Christian Unity, opened the door to greater Eucharistic sharing between interchurch couples, but the directory is not widely known nor does it provide much guidance regarding the difficult issue of Eucharistic sharing for children in interchurch families.

So I was delighted to see that the Instrumentum Laboris devotes more attention to the issue of Eucharistic sharing than seen in previous Synod documents. Of interest to me particularly is paragraph 128. The Italian is below, followed by a translation graciously offered by Dr. Thomas Bolin at St Norbert College (the translation below is now the one from the official English translation. Thank you Thomas for the previous translation!):
Alcuni suggeriscono che i matrimoni misti siano considerati tra i casi di “grave necessità” nei quali è possibile a battezzati fuori della piena comunione con la Chiesa cattolica, che condividono però con essa la fede circa l’Eucaristia, essere ammessi alla ricezione di tale sacramento in mancanza dei propri pastori (cf. EdE, 45-46; Pontificio Consiglio per la Promozione dell’Unità dei Cristiani, Direttorio per l’Applicazione dei Principi e delle Norme per l’Ecumenismo, 25 marzo 1993, 122-128), tenendo conto anche dei criteri propri della comunità ecclesiale alla quale appartengono.
Some suggest that mixed marriages might be considered as cases of "grave necessity," in which it is possible that a baptized person who is not in full communion with the Catholic Church, yet shares the Church’s faith in the Eucharist, be allowed to receive the Eucharist, when their pastors are not available and taking into account the criteria of the ecclesial community to which they belong (cf. EdE, 45-46; Pontifical Council for Promoting Christian Unity, Directory for the Application of Principles and Norms on Ecumenism, 25 March 1993, 122-128).
There are two significant features of this paragraph. First, canon 844 §4 refers to whether sacraments can be given licitly to non-Roman Catholic Christians. It reads:
If the danger of death is present or other grave necessity, in the judgment of the diocesan bishop or the conference of bishops, Catholic ministers may licitly administer these sacraments to other Christians who do not have full communion with the Catholic Church, who cannot approach a minister of their own community and on their own ask for it, provided they manifest Catholic faith in these sacraments and are properly disposed (italics mine).
One of the arguments made by those in the interchurch families movement (including by canon lawyers involved with the movement) is that it should be considered a 'grave necessity' that family members in interchurch families are out of communion with one another, and therefore that the sacrament can and should be given licitly to non-Roman Catholic family members. The 1993 Ecumenical Directory actually implies this reading of canon 844 §4, though this is not made explicit enough, at least in my reading. It is therefore very significant that the Instrumentum Laboris indicates that the Synod delegates are going to take this argument seriously.

The second significant feature of the paragraph is simply that it cites the 1993 Ecumenical Directory. My experience has been that this important document is far too neglected by pastors and laypeople, and that more attention needs to be given to the pastoral guidance provided in it.

The pastoral realities facing interchurch families are very real to me. I have an essay forthcoming in America magazine that speaks personally about the kinds of challenges my wife and I face as an interchurch couple trying to raise our children in a way that exposes them to the depth and beauty of both of our ecclesial traditions. I'm thrilled that the upcoming Synod on the Family is going to take these challenges seriously.

Thursday, June 18, 2015

Struggling to Respond to Racial Violence

My Twitter feed this morning was filled with tweets about two events: the release of Pope Francis' encyclical on the environment and the racially-motivated shooting of nine people in Charleston, South Carolina. I tweeted and retweeted about the former. I didn't tweet anything about the latter.

This is not because I have nothing to say about the racial violence plaguing this country, violence that, far from abating, seems to be ramping up. This is not because I feel like racial violence has nothing to do with me. Although I'm a Canadian living in the United States, I'm fully aware of my complicity as a white person in an economic and social system that continues to disadvantage ethnic minorities. This is not because I'm unaffected by racial violence emotionally and intellectually.

Rather, my reluctance to contribute to the conversations about race on social media has to do with two factors: 1) My own smallness in the face of the immense problem of racism and 2) My fear that I'll simply be assuaging my conscience by making a few comments on social media without doing anything more substantial.

In a class I taught this past semester, we read Thomas Merton's "Letters to a White Liberal," a trenchant essay that criticized whites for thinking and saying the right things (and even promoting the right legislation) while at the same time being completely unwilling concretely to change their ways of living in order to work for and attain racial equality. Merton wrote that whites are willing to go only so far for racial equality. They'll join the rallies, they'll push for equal rights legislation, they'll say all the right things. But when they realize, as they must, that racial equality will mean actual equality, when they discover that racial equality means that whites are actually going to have to make real economic and social sacrifices to attain real structural equality, whites pull up on the reins.

Many people in my Twitter feed who are commenting on the Charleston shooting aren't doing so just to assuage their consciences. Many are actively working for racial justice.

However, if I'm being totally honest with myself and with you, I'm not actively working for racial justice and equality. I remember how shocked Kim and I were to discover the pervasive racism and segregation that is still so much a part of this city and country when we moved to Louisville from Ontario in 2008. And yet, without us trying or meaning to do so, we became part of the structure. Our neighbourhood is predominantly white. Our churches (I'm Catholic and Kim is Episcopalian) are overwhelmingly white.

Sure, I attend lectures and read books on the problem of racism and we read important texts in my classes on racism and racial conflict. But I know - I know - that none of this is good enough. I know - I know - that to be serious about racial justice requires real changes in how we live our lives.

So I worry that, were I to comment on social media and elsewhere about my grief and anger about the Charleston shooting, I'd simply be assuaging my conscience. That I'd - even subconsciously - think that I've 'done my part' when in reality I've done nothing.

I'm not excusing myself here. I'm repenting.

Thursday, June 4, 2015

Why I Remain Catholic: The Church's Abiding Vision

A number of bloggers in the Catholic blogosphere - along a wide spectrum of the church - have been writing pieces recently explaining why they remain Catholic. This is an important exercise, for there are many within the church who wonder why they should continuing to bother being Catholic, as well as many outside the church who look askance at those of us who seek to live out our Catholic faith.

A little over two years ago I published an op-ed in my local newspaper - the Louisville Courier-Journal - explaining not only why I remain Catholic but why the Catholic vision of God and humanity continues to compel me at a deep level. You can read the entire op-ed here, but I thought I'd paste a snippet of the piece as my contribution to the question, "Why do I remain Catholic?"
The church is, for me, far more than its imperfections, glaring though they may be. I am a Catholic because the church articulates a profoundly beautiful vision of the divine and of humanity, a vision that continues to captivate me.
It is a vision that begins with a compelling vision of God. The church declares that we have, through revelation and experience, come to an understanding that God exists as Trinity. This complicated doctrine, at its heart, simply affirms that God exists as community, that God exists, most significantly, as an eternal embrace of selfless love where each person of the Trinity gives the totality of themselves to one another in a dance of love so profound, so complete, so giving, so unifying, that threeness comes to equal oneness. This is what it means to believe that "God is love"; that love - self-giving, totally gratuitous, all-consuming love - is at the very heart of God's essence. It is this idea that God is love that makes sense of why the created order ever came into existence. It is this idea that God is love that explains the gift of God's very self to us in the incarnation, when God became human. And Jesus Christ's example of selfless love, love that led him to the cross, reveals to us that God is love, that God exists as love.
This vision of God brings with it an important understanding of humanity. For not only does Jesus Christ reveal God to be love, but he reveals to us the degree to which all of humanity is loved. We are created in the image and likeness of God, and therefore have the stamp of the divine marked within our very existences. By virtue of our humanness, therefore, we all have what the church calls an inherent dignity and surpassing worth, and the incarnation further reveals to us the infinite value of humanity in God's eyes.
The church is to exist in imitation of the love that is God, who longs for communion and intimacy with us. Transformed and sustained through the continued expressions of God's self to us in the sacraments of baptism and particularly in the Eucharist we are to recognize that we are bound to each other in love. Overwhelmed by the love of God experienced in sacrament and Word, we become united to God and to one another, and are to learn to view others with the love God has for all. In imitating the selfless love of God in the church, the church is to manifest God to all, and to do so in concrete ways.
At its core, the message of the church is one of all-consuming love. It paints a picture of a God whose essence it is to love, of a God who continually shows to us this love, and of communities of believers who, in turn, love selflessly and fully.
Yes, the church has always and continues to fall short of this ideal. But does this fact mean that I must abandon this ideal? Does the church's continued imperfection mean that I should just give up? No, for me it does not. For I cannot help but be thoroughly attracted to the beauty of what the church is called to be by Christ himself each time Christ gives of himself in the Eucharist.
Those who do not know this teaching, and have not therefore experienced the beauty of this message, cannot be expected to understand. Admittedly, the church doesn't do a very good job of articulating this message. But it is this message - that God exists as love and that his followers are to exist in communities which imitate this love - that lies at the heart of the Catholic faith. It is a message that, despite the corruption and scandal that has plagued the church throughout the centuries, still survives and is proclaimed through the lives of countless Catholics - bishops, clergy, religious, and laypeople - throughout the world.
And it is a message I, and many of my fellow Catholics, seek to manifest in our lives.